Every person gets this feeling at times. Don't even try to deny.

Sometimes something -can it be little or big- gets this evil feeling out of us. Even if we are trying to live like totally embracing the other's joys and celebrate,be happy for them.

Still we are humans. That gives the result we make mistakes at times. And trust me this is all right.

However if we continuously keep getting jealous, we should look in to our self and think a bit. What's the point of it? Does it worth it? You can loose your closest friend if you don't stop.

I fail at times too, but I always (try to) remind myself  that it's not good, jealousy won't give any results besides a head- or heartache.

What do we usually get jealous of?

Beauty. Eg.: someone compliments the other person, but not you. Sure, it's not a good feeling but it's not the end of the world either. Maybe that person doesn't see you as pretty as xy but sure there's someone on this huge planet who thinks you are more stunning than anyone.

And success. In today's world it gets harder and harder to reach something outstanding. So when someone does we tend to rather dislike/hate the person or make fun of him/her. I would recommend you to instead of calling the person names, talk to him/her. Ask how was (s)he able to reach what (s)he has reached, what kind of advices would (s)he give to you.


Try to keep in mind that we are all different, therefore we can be complimented on different things. Maybe someone is prettier than you, but you can be a lot better in other areas than the other.

In the end, we should endeavour to be beautiful in our hearts in the first place. Because you know, you shall not judge a book by its' cover.

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